The Art of Flirting, with Muse Robyn

Specialty: Relationships

Name: Robyn Vogel, Flirting Tips for Women

Bio:. "Robyn Vogel is committed to a lifelong path of self-discovery and healing through internal work and the reflections that naturally occur when in Relationship. Robyn's work is a blend of Body-Oriented Therapies including: EMDR, psychotherapy, coaching, reiki and meditation. An expert in flirting, Robyn Vogel utilizes her gifts to help women build confidence and develop a fun and flirtatious attitude. More info can be found at www.FlirtingTipsForWomen.com and www.RobynVogel.com.

Robyn is a Muse who is a beautiful soul spreading sunshine and light to all.

The Art of Flirting

Are you wondering how to get started again after being out of the dating scene for so long? Are you wondering if you are still "in the game" - if anyone is going to find you attractive and if you have what it takes to attract someone?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you have a lot in common with most adults who have found themselves single after years in a relationship.

Well, I have confidence in you. I believe anyone can rejoin the world of flirting and dating at any point in their lives. Yes, there are a handful of skills you need to hone before going out to a party, club or social gathering with high hopes of attracting someone. Flirting is an important skill to master, but an easy one to learn.

Flirting is a very broad term. What comes to mind when you hear the word? The first thing that comes to me is a feeling of self-confidence: a self-assured man or woman with a warm, bright smile along with body language that says, "It's safe to approach me" or "Stay there and I will approach you." The smile and body language communicate that the interaction will be fun, playful and engaging. Who wouldn't respond to an invitation like that?

Flirting is:

eye contact that connects

an invitation to share yourself with someone else

breathing into feeling vulnerable but approaching someone anyway

initiating that conversation and staying present to it

having the courage to be yourself

without expectation (or an end goal)

playful, direct and honest (I can't emphasize this enough!)

can be sexy and sensuous but not sexual (unless you choose it to be)

and most of all flirting is a conscious choice to express interest in another.

Here is one tip to get you started on your foray into the land of flirting and dating. Get paper and pen and write down all the amazing and unique things about you (go ahead, do it now).

What are the top 3 things on that list that other people love about you? In a brief interaction with a prospective date, you can share those 3 things easily as long as you know what they are. It's a matter of knowing your gifts and sharing them confidently.

For example, one thing people love about me is that I make people feel comfortable and at ease. Since I've received that feedback again and again, I am sure to emphasize it when I meet someone. I do that by using direct eye contact and a gentle, warm touch on the person's arm when talking or listening to them. These simple gestures put people at ease and let them know I am interested in them.

Assessing your readiness and learning to flirt again will get you back into the dating scene with confidence and ease. Make now your time to flirt, date and have fun!

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